Why do we need to be warned of false beliefs? All disempowering beliefs, such as unworthiness, powerlessness, and victimhood, put us into survival mode, and over time can cause chronic and acute issues with serious repercussions. Therefore, we need a warning system that alerts us to debilitating beliefs.
This warning system is emotion, and, in fact, the purpose of emotional pain is to alert you to the fact you believe a falsehood. Just like physical pain alerts you the second you prick your finger with a knife, so you won’t cut your whole finger off, emotional pain alerts you to harmful beliefs so you can release them.
Without knowing that emotional pain is a sign of a false belief, most of us wrongly interpret this pain; so whenever we feel the emotional pain associated with unworthiness, the pain makes us believe the belief is true, thereby strengthening the belief and deepening the wound, and this perpetuates a cycle of emotional pain.
Furthermore, this internal warning system will stop at nothing to make you aware of a false belief, and, in fact, with increasing amplification, you will attract continuous opportunities that trigger emotional pain until you finally pay attention and release the false belief that is responsible for the pain. All emotional healing is releasing disempowering beliefs.
Entangled in the conscious or unconscious belief that worth depends on getting our parents to meet our emotional needs, we grow into adults, still expecting one or both parents to give us what we need to feel worthy. But, this just sets us up for more pain because it never works.
Author Nanice Ellis has been a professional life coach for over 20 years, successfully coaching women and men from all over the world to bridge the gap from the imagination of a dream to the realization of that dream. Teaching proven manifestation techniques, Nanice is also a Theta Healer and Master Neuro Linguistic Practitioner. Nanice’s unique coaching style is often referred to as the “Nanice Effect”. Nanice is also the author of The Infinite Power of You! (as well as several other books). To find out more, please visit www.Nanice.com