Ah, yes, words that no parent likes to hear, especially a divorced parent.  If you’re divorced and you have kids, you’re likely going to hear this (or obviously, “I’m going to live with Mom”) a few times in your life.  So, how can we best handle this heated situation without making matters worse?  Alyson Schafer, Canadian parenting expert gives us some great tips in this article which appeared in Huffington Post.